Such a nightmare and scary thought. All and all, I am still the person that I clearly know. There is never fantasy or drama scenes going to happen in life, at least it did not work in my life. If it happens at one day, probably that is my lucky day where miracle happen.
Trust had always been a difficult issue to go through no matter in which relationship - family, friend or love. Congratulations that if you did not meet this issue ever in your life, but for those who met difficulties in this issue, I would say you just need sometimes to understand and accept the facts. That's only two possible outcomes, is either you choose to continue the relationship or not, simple as that. The key points are about your emotion and time, whether can you forgive or forget the person and how long do you need to complete the process - the process of healing from hurts.
As my confidence often overload, I couldn't accept the facts that I am being fooled, especially by the person or matter that I seriously care about it. Perhaps I could, but it really takes a period of time for me to accept the facts and build back myself. Not only confidence but everything that probably had worn out without my notice during the process.
I was trying to question myself every time - why am I so naive? Even a person that is younger than me could have better logic and more rational when it comes to analyzing a situation. However, I also think in this way - ' What if I try to analyze a person or situation with all the logic or rational every single time? ', that probably turn me into an individual who does not trust anything nor anyone, which is scary and the process may be tiring. What I need to learn or improve is to be more observative and spend more time to think (everything).
People come and people go. Agree or not, everyone in our life is temporary except ourselves. At the end of the day, I just want to live and leave happily. Alone or together with someone does not matter because they may leave us or we may leave them in one day. Sometimes we just couldn't believe 'why?', and after we overcome it, there may be another issue happen and may make you feel unbelievable. The routine goes round and round until the end of life.
Appreciate the people around you and cherish the moment because you would never know what's next.
Note: This passage does not mean for the purpose of debate. But if just for the exchange of idea, you're most welcome to leave a comment below.
